Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Today I am leaving for Houston. I don't know how long I will be there.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Today I am not going anywhere because I lost my house key, so I am going to catch up on some reading. I'm currently reading "SM 101" by Jay Wiseman and it is a lot better than "Screw the Roses, Give Me the Thorns."

Also, it is hairwashing day, so I will take care of that in the afternoon.

Monday, 12 April 2010

Today my plans are to organize my closet and call the psychiatrist to make an appointment so he can change my meds.

today

I may go and volunteer at Treasure City Thrift. Also I am going to see if there is a Buddhist meeting anywhere.

Sir Ryan is helping me get some more structure in my life

...so he asked me to write down my goals and plans for each day. I think this will help me feel more disciplined and not like I am just mindlessly going through each day.

On the agenda for today...so far, anyway

getting a new phone charger from the T-mobile store
ordering some books from Amazon
cleaning up the bathroom
checking e-mail and Facebook
oh, yeah, eating!

I will probably add to this list throughout the day.

went to Half-Price Books...

...and found a copy of Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns. It seems pretty interesting so far.

I will probably order some more books tomorrow once my debit card is working.

Klein Sexual Orientation Grid

I scored an average of 4.1

0

1

2

3

4

5

6

Heterosexual

Bisexual

Homosexual

Meaning

This result can also be related to the Kinsey Scale:


0 = exclusively heterosexual
1 = predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
2 = predominantly heterosexual, but more
than incidentally homosexual
3 = equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 = predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally
heterosexual
5 = predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
6 = exclusively homosexual

Summary

The idea of this excercise is to understand exactly how dynamic a person's sexual orientation can be, as well as how fluid it can be over a person's lifespan. While a person's number of actual homo/heterosexual encounters may be easy to categorize, their actual orientation may be completely different. Simple labels like "homosexual", "heterosexual", and "bisexual" need not be the only three options available to us.

Take the quiz

submitting to an asshole...can't do it

I decided that I can't do the dominance/submission thing with the ex anymore because he just turns into a complete whining baby/asshole.  I am tired of always having to go over the same fantasies with him (e.g. group sex, interracial sex) with him, fantasies that I have no intention of ever making a reality.  My fantasies just end up being minimized, or at worst, ignored.

Is there a man out there that I could have a healthy kinky relationship with?  I am not even super kinky.  I like the mind games more than anything.  Nobody has to beat me to a bloody pulp.

saw special friend and he is so sexy and geeky...sigh!

I can't wait for Denton...

Tomorrow I am going to Denton to see my special friend. 

introduction

I am Miss Anastacia, and this is my blog...

My name is Anastacia, otherwise known as Stacey. WARNING: My profile is really long...but if you want to know more about me, it pretty much says everything.







Imagination is more important than knowledge. Albert Einstein






I'm not as innocent as I look, and I know more than I let on...

I am...

A bisexual femme. I've been out in the LGBT/feminist communities for 18 years, and I am a 4.1 on the Kinsey scale, though I have had more boyfriends than girlfriends.

recently divorced, after almost six years of marriage.


new to the poly community.. I don't really dig the word "poly" (I'd rather call myself non-monogamous) and I don't feel like I have shit in common with a lot of other poly folks, but maybe that is just my personal bullshit that I need to work on.

A combination of hippie and goth, slightly countrified (well, for Austin, anyway)

A geek, but I am more into politics, women's studies, and history than science fiction or RPGs


Really new to the kinky community, though I have been a freak since at least the sixth grade, when I had fantasies of my Sunday School teacher tying me up and shagging my brains out, but after years of guilt and confusion about it (gee, thanks, Southern Baptists) I am finally on the way to becoming the sexually liberated woman that I was created to be.


a switch... I am more submissive with men, but I can be either dominant or submissive with women. I am not interested in submissive men.


A masochist...pain makes me feel good and it relaxes me.


A big time feminist


Always assumed to be a decade younger than I am


Originally from Houston, but I have also lived in San Francisco, Denton, Waco, El Paso, Nashville, Oklahoma, Louisiana, and Albuquerque. I have lived on and off in Austin since 1992, and this time I have been here since 2005.


an artist, and I have been one since childhood. I paint strange psychedelic stuff with acrylics. Sometimes I make collages.

a writer