Hello

My name is
Miss Anastacia
I am
ambisexual, BDSM, bidyke, complex, crip, different, eccentric, eclectic, female, female-identified, hippychick, LGBTQA, library dyke, Ms., man-loving, multifacetted, queer femme, strange, submissive, woman-loving
Who are you?




“We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force which moves us toward living in a fundamental way.” -Audre Lorde





"How blessed am I in this discovering thee To enter in these bonds is to be free." -- John Donne





"You are no one's slave, dog, slut, or sub until you give them that right. Only you can give it. No one can take or assume it without your permission." - Jack Rinella





"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding." -- Anais Nin


Tuesday, March 23, 2010

introduction

I am Miss Anastacia, and this is my blog...

My name is Anastacia, otherwise known as Stacey. WARNING: My profile is really long...but if you want to know more about me, it pretty much says everything.







Imagination is more important than knowledge. Albert Einstein






I'm not as innocent as I look, and I know more than I let on...

I am...

A bisexual femme. I've been out in the LGBT/feminist communities for 18 years, and I am a 4.1 on the Kinsey scale, though I have had more boyfriends than girlfriends.

recently divorced, after almost six years of marriage.


new to the poly community.. I don't really dig the word "poly" (I'd rather call myself non-monogamous) and I don't feel like I have shit in common with a lot of other poly folks, but maybe that is just my personal bullshit that I need to work on.

A combination of hippie and goth, slightly countrified (well, for Austin, anyway)

A geek, but I am more into politics, women's studies, and history than science fiction or RPGs


Really new to the kinky community, though I have been a freak since at least the sixth grade, when I had fantasies of my Sunday School teacher tying me up and shagging my brains out, but after years of guilt and confusion about it (gee, thanks, Southern Baptists) I am finally on the way to becoming the sexually liberated woman that I was created to be.


a switch... I am more submissive with men, but I can be either dominant or submissive with women. I am not interested in submissive men.


A masochist...pain makes me feel good and it relaxes me.


A big time feminist


Always assumed to be a decade younger than I am


Originally from Houston, but I have also lived in San Francisco, Denton, Waco, El Paso, Nashville, Oklahoma, Louisiana, and Albuquerque. I have lived on and off in Austin since 1992, and this time I have been here since 2005.


an artist, and I have been one since childhood. I paint strange psychedelic stuff with acrylics. Sometimes I make collages.

a writer






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