Hello

My name is
Miss Anastacia
I am
ambisexual, BDSM, bidyke, complex, crip, different, eccentric, eclectic, female, female-identified, hippychick, LGBTQA, library dyke, Ms., man-loving, multifacetted, queer femme, strange, submissive, woman-loving
Who are you?




“We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force which moves us toward living in a fundamental way.” -Audre Lorde





"How blessed am I in this discovering thee To enter in these bonds is to be free." -- John Donne





"You are no one's slave, dog, slut, or sub until you give them that right. Only you can give it. No one can take or assume it without your permission." - Jack Rinella





"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding." -- Anais Nin


Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Today I am leaving for Houston. I don't know how long I will be there.
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Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Today I am not going anywhere because I lost my house key, so I am going to catch up on some reading. I'm currently reading "SM 101" by Jay Wiseman and it is a lot better than "Screw the Roses, Give Me the Thorns."

Also, it is hairwashing day, so I will take care of that in the afternoon.
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Monday, April 12, 2010

Monday, 12 April 2010

Today my plans are to organize my closet and call the psychiatrist to make an appointment so he can change my meds.
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Saturday, April 10, 2010

today

I may go and volunteer at Treasure City Thrift. Also I am going to see if there is a Buddhist meeting anywhere.
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Friday, April 9, 2010

Sir Ryan is helping me get some more structure in my life

...so he asked me to write down my goals and plans for each day. I think this will help me feel more disciplined and not like I am just mindlessly going through each day.

On the agenda for today...so far, anyway

getting a new phone charger from the T-mobile store
ordering some books from Amazon
cleaning up the bathroom
checking e-mail and Facebook
oh, yeah, eating!

I will probably add to this list throughout the day.
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Thursday, April 8, 2010

went to Half-Price Books...

...and found a copy of Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns. It seems pretty interesting so far.

I will probably order some more books tomorrow once my debit card is working.
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Klein Sexual Orientation Grid


I scored an average of 4.1
01 2 3 4 5
 6
HeterosexualBisexual Homosexual

Meaning

This result can also be related to the Kinsey Scale:


0 = exclusively heterosexual
1 = predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
2 = predominantly heterosexual, but more
than incidentally homosexual
3 = equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 = predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally
heterosexual
5 = predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
6 = exclusively homosexual

Summary

The idea of this excercise is to understand exactly how dynamic a person's sexual orientation can be, as well as how fluid it can be over a person's lifespan. While a person's number of actual homo/heterosexual encounters may be easy to categorize, their actual orientation may be completely different. Simple labels like "homosexual", "heterosexual", and "bisexual" need not be the only three options available to us.

Take the quiz
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