Hello

My name is
Miss Anastacia
I am
ambisexual, BDSM, bidyke, complex, crip, different, eccentric, eclectic, female, female-identified, hippychick, LGBTQA, library dyke, Ms., man-loving, multifacetted, queer femme, strange, submissive, woman-loving
Who are you?




“We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force which moves us toward living in a fundamental way.” -Audre Lorde





"How blessed am I in this discovering thee To enter in these bonds is to be free." -- John Donne





"You are no one's slave, dog, slut, or sub until you give them that right. Only you can give it. No one can take or assume it without your permission." - Jack Rinella





"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding." -- Anais Nin


Thursday, April 8, 2010

submitting to an asshole...can't do it

I decided that I can't do the dominance/submission thing with the ex anymore because he just turns into a complete whining baby/asshole.  I am tired of always having to go over the same fantasies with him (e.g. group sex, interracial sex) with him, fantasies that I have no intention of ever making a reality.  My fantasies just end up being minimized, or at worst, ignored.

Is there a man out there that I could have a healthy kinky relationship with?  I am not even super kinky.  I like the mind games more than anything.  Nobody has to beat me to a bloody pulp.
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